Caring for senior parents is not easy, and dementia care can be daunting, especially when they are stubborn. Resisting care and digging in their heels are two hallmarks of dementia. But it may not be as challenging as you would expect. Whether you care for a parent or senior loved one with Alzheimer’s disease or another type of dementia, the right attitude is crucial to success.
Caring for a loved one with dementia poses many challenges. People with dementia from conditions, such as Alzheimer’s, have a progressive biological brain disorder that makes it more and more difficult for them to remember things, think clearly, communicate with others, and take care of themselves. Dementia may also cause mood swings and even change a person’s personality and behavior.
Ask simple, answerable questions. Ask one question at a time; those with yes or no answers work best. Refrain from asking open-ended questions or giving too many choices. Break down activities into a series of steps. This makes many tasks much more manageable.
Respond with affection and reassurance. People with dementia often feel confused and anxious, and get reality confused. They may recall things that never really occurred. Avoid trying to convince them they’re wrong. focus on the feelings they are demonstrating and respond with verbal and physical expressions of comfort, support, and reassurance.